Intentions Over Outcomes

In a split second a combination of many variants of relief and terror washed over me. Holy shit, after 15 years this was actually happening.

When we go through a separation or divorce, whether by choice or by circumstance, it can be incredibly devastating. For me coming to terms with the fact that my marriage was not going to work was one of the most difficult things I had to do.

Steve (fictional name, true story) had fucked up in a big way. He knew it, and as the leader of the organization he worked for, I knew it too. What I did not know, however,…